Be a Chooser not a Chaser

If you want to be a chooser, not a chaser in the early stages of talking to a new girl, follow these three rules: If she cancels on a date last minute, ignore the behavior and carry on. You can keep chatting like nothing happened, but do not try to reschedule! If she is interested in going on a date, she will let you know. Meanwhile, show off the lifestyle in which you live via your social media, and do it right so it captures her attention.

Rewrite your comments and compliments to "I" statements instead of "you" statements. For example: instead of saying, "You seem really passionate about your job," say, "I love when a woman is passionate about her work." This small shift makes you appear confident and discerning, showing that you appreciate qualities in others without immediately placing her on a pedestal. Women are naturally drawn to men who have standards and appear to have options.

Avoid oneitis! Don't fall into the trap of putting all your energy into one girl too soon-this is called oneitis. In the early stages, it's perfectly okay-and even smart-to keep other options open. Banking on one girl too early could result in overlooking red flags or placing unnecessary pressure on the relationship instead of letting things unfold naturally.

Jamie Date
Dating Coach for men
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