The #1 Mistake Newly Single Guys Make

The transition when you are newly single can be tough, especially when this transition is about moving on from your ex. Many guys I work with still find themselves attached to their ex girlfriends, and that attachment is always the biggest roadblock from finding new love. Or it could be anger. Or bitterness. Or sometimes even guilt. These make you stuck in the past. But sometimes, when attachment looks a little more different, it manifests like comparison.

You would repeat this enough times: "The girl I went out with is good, but my ex was better." This kind of thinking sidelines you from the main reason you and this girl broke up in the first place.

Let's be realistic-the connection to your ex and the connection to someone you just met is like apples and oranges. It is not even fair to compare them at all.

Here’s the trick:

Start focusing on what you want in a partner, not what your ex had. You have to break that habit of associating certain traits with your ex and start seeing them as qualities you want in a new partner.

Now that you know who that is, write down those qualities and manifest them! Stop comparing and start creating new opportunities for love. This mental shift will unlock the potential for new connections and let go of the past. It is forward movement as well as opening oneself up to what's next.

Jamie Date
Dating Coach for men
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